Tuesday 16 November 2010

Mumbai belongs to all.


Mumbai. A city of Acceptance. Anyone who comes here, the city just makes them feel at home, accepted and allows them to be themselves. For those who have been born and brought up here, it’s a matter of pride and luck, that they were born into the city of opportunity.
Today however, a burning question lies in the heart of this city. A question which all political parties, claim to have an answer to and then want to leverage upon that just for the sake of votes. The question is: To whom does Mumbai belong?

As a part of this city, honestly, it is a bad question. The city has never differentiated among its people. Then how can a certain set of people claim Mumbai to be theirs? As a person, new to the city, I attempted to find answers to this burning question.
Does it belong to the selfish political parties and leaders who just use this city every time for their own good? NO! Absolutely Not! They do not even deserve to be called Mumbaikars. Then who can lay claim to the city? The ‘Sons of the Soil’ or only the ones who were born and brought up here? Maybe, But definitely not just them.

To all those who accept and love this city, the city belongs to them. The crowds, the every day fast paced life and the grime and toil of daily travel, people who bear all this and more and still love every bit of it, it is to them that the city really belongs to. It belong to that lady, who lives her entire livelihood in a 10 x 10 feet room in a chawl and to her husband who toils despite heat and rain to earn his bread.
Mumbai belongs to anyone who has come to it for some space from Ambani to the man sleeping on the railway platform. It belongs to the humble fellow who lives in the slums yet dreams big and grand. It belongs to all those who dance like crazy in Ganeshotsav as if there is no tomorrow. When rains knock, and couples frequent to Worli Seaface, the katta or the pavement is also Mumbai. It belongs to the kids who go to the national park, hanging gardens and Jijamata zoo and get a taste of wild in the middle of a concrete jungle. It belongs to those families who go to chowpatty every Sunday to have bhelpuri and just look at the sun set. It belongs to those, who have left the city for a New York or London, but still harbor the dream of coming back Home!

Mumbai belongs to those who cross knee-deep and waist high water in monsoon when the local fails them. It belongs to those who put stumps and start playing cricket at any place available in the city. It belongs to the connoisseurs of painting, dance and various other arts. (Fun Fact: The walls of Taj Mahal Hotel’s restaurant have been painted by M.F. Hussain. In his youth, he liked to give expensive parties to his friends, but didn’t have the money to pay. The manager at Taj saw his talent and asked him to paint the walls instead!)
It belongs to those muslims in byculla who lovingly welcome Lalbaugcha Raja with aarti every year. It belong to the hindu who wishes everyone Id Mubarak at bhendi bazaar and lovingly accepts the kheer and biryani. It belongs to the orphan who has lost its parents in the train blasts. It belongs to that old aged couple who still mourn the loss of their young son in the 93 riots. It belongs to those who show the resilience that the city is characterized by. And to those whose blood boils at the mention of the 26/11 and Kasab. 

If a city has so many dimensions, such a brilliant life and well amazing history, How can it ever be the property of one race of people or religion or political party? It belongs to all those Indians who come here to make their drams turn to reality. No race, sect, caste, religion, region or language can ever be criteria for this city. Its soul is heterogeneity. It prides in the fact that ‘It is equal and fair to anyone who comes to it.’

Monday 8 November 2010

Confessions of a Work-a-holic!

People who know me, well they know that i am a super work-a-holic! Even though my parents think otherwise, my friends and fellow classmates do think of me as one. I admit. I am a work-a-holic and proud of it. I party hard, i work harder! So here are some confessions of a work-a-holic which may sound a li'l weird to normal folks like u guys.

  • Working gives us a high. When things are running smooth... oh boy, we really like it! and we would rather finish off as much as possible, so that the flow is maintained and used up. i mean, it makes us feel damn good when all things are getting done quick and smooth.
  • When things are not going so smooth, its the challenges that entice us. We like to face a challenge and face it head on! I mean, let the challenge come and i shall deal with it! Again, it gives some kind of a high, working and overcoming an obstacle. It feels awesome.
  • If work is not there, we can be lazy and/or relaxed. Hey, we're humans too.. Its just work comes higher up the order than chilling out!\
  • Our levels of expectations are invariably high from the others (as in our team). Since we are putting in loads of energy and time, dude, i will expect some significant stuff from you too...
  • Several times, work becomes a way to suppress unpleasant emotions. Like taking up a lot of work after a break-up or divorce. Just engrossing ourselves into it and thus delaying or postponing that confrontation with our own self. Its like a defense mechanism. We would rather work than think about something that hurts.
  • We like to be appreciated for our efforts. (well, who doesn't! :P ) But since we put in a lot of efforts at work place, we feel happy when someone thanks us. and thats one of the rewards that we strive for.
  • Our personal lives need a lot of compromise and understanding. the partner needs to be flexible and accept the crazy life that we live. Yeah, It Sucks!
  • We may look for details or the big picture, but in the end its all about getting the work DONE!
  • Sleep and work are inversely related.
There you go! From 1 work-a-holic to the world. This is what we are! Better learn to live with it! ;)